How to talk to girls
Here are 3 things you can do:
1. First of all it's good if you choose a place where there are a lot of girls, go to a place where there are more girls than guys (café, park, university).
2. Train your social muscles, start getting comfortable speaking with new people by asking for directions.
3. One very good under the radar way to start conversations or raise the interest in a conversation is to ask for a girls opinion about something, for example:
- Hey guys, I need your opinion of something real quick. Then you ask her for some opinion... usually it's good to ask for a female opinion... you can ask what kind of present to buy for your female friend and where you should look for it.
But before you check out the video... I recommend you to read my story about how I learned how to talk to girls.
Hi, I’m Carlos.
I will tell you
my unique story about how learned how to talk to girls.
Talking to girls has always been a problem for me. I am not naturally good with girls.
I remember countless of times when
I've made fool out of myself... I never knew how to approach or what to say...
I wanted to have a pretty girlfriend... But it seemed impossible if I didn’t know how to communicate with girls...
I started asking for advice in forums and found a bunch of techniques about how to talk to girls...
I read everything... But nothing was worth using, it was either crap or it was good but way too complicated. I needed something that I could use right away and get good fast results...
One day when I logged into one of the forums... I'd gotten a message from one of the guys that had advised me before...
He talked about a new technique that wasn’t open to the public... But could invite me to learn it.
I got a link to a video that explained more... The technique was about “how to read a girls mind”... I learned that there are 8 different female types, and what these 8 different type of girls are attracted to. Apparently different girls are attracted to different things...
Then learned how to talk in the right way to attract all types of girls.
I tried this technique out at a club with two of my best buddies... My buddy Jordan knew 3 girls at this place... We sat down at a table to have a drink...
One of the girls was really hot; the other two was pretty average. I started talking to one of the average girls using my new weapon... at first she didn’t seem to be interested but after 4-5 minutes her eyes opened...
she started touching her hair and her face... really giving me indications of interest.
It was kind of loud in the club so the other girls could see that the girl was attracted to me but couldn’t hear anything... All of the sudden the hot girl switched seats and sat down next to me...
She said – What makes you so special (while smiling)?
I started using the technique on her as well, it took me about 10 minutes and now the hot one was giving me a lot of hints that she was interested...
Suddenly the hot girl asked me if I wanted to go dance with her… I told her – why not... We went to the dance floor and started dancing... after about 3 minutes
she started kissing me. I got kind of chocked... but this proved that the technique was working.
Later that night she followed me home, we didn’t have sex that night but a few nights later she invited me to her place, and I had the best sex of life.
After that night I started using this technique everywhere, with great success.
Now after 5 months I can say that this stuff has totally changed my life.
I have dated and had sex with more girls these past 5 month than I had before I learned about this stuff.
If you want to learn more about this technique:
Click here to see a video about it!
How to talk to girls - Take action
If I never would have taken action before learning how to talk to a girl. I would probably be on the same spot as before. It takes will power to do something new, but the more you do it the easier it will get.
Learning how to start talking to girls was one of the best decisions in my life. How do you talk to girls? And what result are you getting? If you think that you could do better I recommend the technique I used. You can find it here.
When you want to call a girl you just met it’s you probably have a reason to call her. You might wanna take her out on a date or just call her to build some connection.
Take her on a date
Don’t signal to her that you will take her on a date. Your mindset should be that you are the prize not her.
Usually when I meet her I will plant seeds of what will happen in the future, say for example that I want to take her for a date. Then I will bring up different topics of conversations where my purpose is to find out what she likes.
I might say, have you eaten really good sorbet ice-cream? If she say’s yes and tell you that she has and she likes it, you continue telling her about this place that you know, that do the best lemon sorbet ice-cream and how you to should go there sometime, you can even create a story about the place so she can picture it better.
When I call her she already knows that I like Ice-cream and she does too.
First joke around with her for a while on the phone, then tell her – I am going to the city today to do some shopping (you signal to her that you will go there even if she is not coming with you), let’s meet up for some delicious sorbet ice-cream.
This works great for a few reasons:
1. You have found something that she likes so it’s easier to convince her.
2. She might already fantasized how you and her go on a ice-cream date.
3. You will go to there anyway, this shows that you are not depending on her.
Some other tips
1. Don’t call her to to late, keep it before 9 p.m.
2. Always lead the conversation.
3. Don’ ask to many questions, it’s not an interview.
Here are some tips on how to talk to girls:
1. Be funny, Girls love funny guys that makes them laugh. But don’t try hard to do it. You should do it naturally and without any hesitation.
2. Good body language is important when you talk to girls. Don’t lean in, have a relaxed body language and lean back, make her lean in to you as you speak.
3. If you don’t know her that well, stay away from too personal questions.
4. Don’t ask her out directly, you need to get to know her better and spark attraction first.
5. Try to find a common interest. You can use this info to get her on a date she likes later.
6. Have a wing man that helps you distract her friends, and give you higher value by talking good about you.
When it comes to talk to girls at parties there’s a lot you can do to be more attractive.
Be strategic
You can use a few strategies to automatically get girls talking to you. Hang out with the host of the party, every girl will introduce herself to the host. Girls like guys who are the center of attention. Be in the area where most girls hang out.
Differentiate yourself – Stand out
Dress uniquely, have some clothing that stands out that girls want to touch or talk about.
How to talk to girls at parties
- Entertain bigger groups of people (women love leaders).
- Make eye contact with the girls / people you are talking to.
- Flirt with women on distance.
- Don’t give the woman you are most interested in too much attention.
- Tease her and don’t give her complements for her appearance.
- Make her work for your attention.
- If you want to attract her you need to use kino, in other words you need to touch her (don’t be afraid to be sexual, but do it in very small steps).
