When you want to call a girl you just met it’s you probably have a reason to call her. You might wanna take her out on a date or just call her to build some connection.
Take her on a date
Don’t signal to her that you will take her on a date. Your mindset should be that you are the prize not her.
Usually when I meet her I will plant seeds of what will happen in the future, say for example that I want to take her for a date. Then I will bring up different topics of conversations where my purpose is to find out what she likes.
I might say, have you eaten really good sorbet ice-cream? If she say’s yes and tell you that she has and she likes it, you continue telling her about this place that you know, that do the best lemon sorbet ice-cream and how you to should go there sometime, you can even create a story about the place so she can picture it better.
When I call her she already knows that I like Ice-cream and she does too.
First joke around with her for a while on the phone, then tell her – I am going to the city today to do some shopping (you signal to her that you will go there even if she is not coming with you), let’s meet up for some delicious sorbet ice-cream.
This works great for a few reasons:
1. You have found something that she likes so it’s easier to convince her.
2. She might already fantasized how you and her go on a ice-cream date.
3. You will go to there anyway, this shows that you are not depending on her.
Some other tips
1. Don’t call her to to late, keep it before 9 p.m.
2. Always lead the conversation.
3. Don’ ask to many questions, it’s not an interview.
